Today, we’re going to start by
taking a look at something that happened in Corinth. There had been a problem
in the church there. So, Paul wrote to them about it. This letter had some
strong comments about the situation and what the believers needed to do. It was
quite severe. We don’t have this letter, but we do find in 2 Corinthians that
the saints had responded well to what Paul had written them. Listen to what
Paul says about their response.
For even if I
made you grieve with my letter, I do not regret it — though I did regret it,
for I see that that letter grieved you, though only for a while. As it is, I
rejoice, not because you were grieved, but because you were grieved into
repenting. For you felt a Godly grief, so that you suffered no loss through us.
For Godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation without regret,
whereas worldly grief produces death. For see what earnestness this Godly grief
has produced in you, but also what eagerness to clear yourselves, what
indignation, what fear, what longing, what zeal, what punishment! 2 Corinthians
7.8-11
Paul wrote to them about some
sin, and they dealt with that sin. They dealt with it quite well. They
repented. And Paul was ecstatic.
I want to use what happened there
to talk about a familiar theme. I want to talk about repentance. I want to help
you to understand a bit better what you are called to do when it comes to
dealing with your sin so that you can respond as well as those Corinthian
saints did.
Let’s start by considering some
poor responses to sin, responses that will show as inadequate repentance. One
response is to minimize the sin. ‘It’s not all that bad. I didn’t kill anybody.’
This kind of attitude leads to a repentance that is halfhearted, at best. There’s
not much to it. After all, the sin wasn’t anything terrible.
Then, of course, there’s the
opposite: the sin is seen as so awful that the person is overwhelmed. This
person is so crushed by what he did that he is actually unable to repent. This
happens to someone who thinks that he isn’t all that bad of a person - and then
he finds out that he actually is. He finds out how much of a sinner he really
is. He cannot repent because he is shocked at what he has discovered about himself.
It immobilizes him. He never actually repents.
Then, there’s what I’ll call the
magical response. This is like the child who’s been told to say he’s sorry for
some offense - or else. Not wanting to feel the consequences of a refusal, he
says the magic words. ‘I’m sorry.’ But he’s not sorry at all. Plenty of people
confess their sins to God without actually being sorry for them. But they’ve
said the magic words, so everything must be okay.
All of these fit into a category.
And Paul gives this category a name. He calls it ‘worldly grief’. It’s a kind
of being sorry, but not the right kind. It’s either minimizing what happened,
being overwhelmed by what happened or simply saying words that you don’t mean
about what happened. It’s the wrong kind of sorrow. And, as Paul tells the Corinthian
saints, this kind of being sorry, ‘worldly grief’, results in death. It will
kill you.
Let me offer an example of
worldly grief: Judas.
Then when Judas,
who had betrayed Him, saw that He had been condemned, he felt remorse and
returned the thirty pieces of silver to the chief priests and elders… Then he
went and hanged himself. Matthew 27.3,5
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Please notice that Judas was
sorry for what he did. He really was. He felt honest remorse. But this was
worldly grief. And we know that because of how he responded. He didn’t repent.
Instead, being overwhelmed by what he had done, he committed suicide. Not
everyone who gives himself to worldly grief will commit suicide, though some
will. But all will have to deal with an angry God who will curse them for their
failure to repent.
Now, let’s consider a better
response, how the Corinthian believers responded. One thing that is obvious in
Paul’s description of their response is the intensity of it.
For see what earnestness
this Godly grief has produced in you, but also what eagerness to clear
yourselves, what indignation, what fear, what longing, what zeal, what
punishment!
The Corinthians dealt well with
their sin. They repented from the heart. And the reason behind their repentance
was something Paul calls ‘Godly grief’. They had the right kind of sorrow. This
kind of sorrow understands what happened. ‘I sinned. And I did that against God!’ A person with this kind of
sorrow doesn’t minimize what he did. He isn’t overwhelmed by it either. And he
doesn’t use magic words. He sees reality. He has offended God, a most serious
matter. But he knows the wise way to respond to that. Repentance. This leads to
God’s blessing, as Paul explains.
For Godly grief
produces a repentance that leads to salvation …
It was because of this Godly
grief that the Corinthians had the intense response that Paul commended. They
realized what they had done, were grieved by it and repented of it. And as a
result, they experienced God’s rescue, His salvation.
An example of this kind of
repentance that comes from Godly grief is David when he responded to his sin
with Bathsheba. Let me remind you of the awful things that David did. First, he
stole another man’s wife. And this man, Uriah, was a loyal friend of his who
was off fighting his battles. David thought everything was fine, that Uriah
wouldn’t find out, until Bathsheba told him that she had become pregnant. So,
what does David do. He schemes to cover up his sin. But that didn’t work. And
that led to David murdering the man. These acts are horrible.
Now, listen to David, once he
comes to his senses.
For I know my
transgressions, and my sin is ever before me. Against
you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you
may be justified in your words and blameless in your judgment. Psalms 51:3-4
Do you hear what he is saying? No
minimizing here. David admits his sin. He labels it as something that is evil.
And he even says that if God were to condemn him for it, He would be justified.
This is Godly grief.
But notice where this Godly grief
goes. Listen to David’s boldness.
Have mercy on
me, O God, according to your steadfast love; according to your abundant mercy
blot out my transgressions. Wash
me thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin! Psalm 51.1,2
He doesn’t ask that God overlook
his sin, or even that He simply pardon it. He boldly asks that his sin be
erased from the record books, blotted out, expunged. And then, he asks that any
lingering sense of the guilt of his sin that he was experiencing would be
washed away. He wants to be completely clean of it all. How bold!
But David isn’t finished with his
bold requests.
Create in me a
clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me. Psalm 51.10
David is not satisfied with
merely being forgiven and washed. He also wants to be changed. And what he’s
look for is not merely a change in his habits, like watching bathing women. He
wants a change deep within. He wants a heart that is eager for what is good and
hates what is evil. And so, he asks for it.
This is what Paul means by Godly
grief.
For Godly grief
produces a repentance that leads to salvation …
David was saved from this sin.
So many Christians today would
not dare to ask for such things, especially if they were in the same situation
- at least not until there had been some suitable penance. But not David. And
why? Because he understood the Gospel better than many do today. The Gospel
that Jesus has established - in contrast with its counterfeits - makes it
possible for people who commit horrific sins, people like us, to come to the
Father and ask for complete forgiveness just like David did.
And it all starts with Godly
grief.
Let me be clear as to what I want
you to work at. The goal is not to
have the intense response that the Corinthians did. Whether that happens or not
is secondary. The goal is to grieve over your sin with a Godly grief. How that
shows will be different for each of you. But the inner reality of a Godly grief
instead of a worldly grief - that must be the same. And if that Godly grief is
there, then real repentance will result. And the promise of the Gospel is that
such a Godly grief will lead to salvation from your sin.
The question at this point is
obvious. How do we develop this Godly grief? There is no secret trick. The only
way is to get to know the Father well. And that’s because Godly grief isn’t
about being shocked that you’ve broken some rule. That results in worldly
grief. Godly grief shows up when you understand that you’ve offended the
Father. You’ve attacked the loving relationship that He has granted to you. But
being able to see your life and your choices in terms of your relationship with
the Father takes us back to things like meditation on the Gospel and prayer.
Living well, which includes Godly grief over sin, is all about knowing the
Father well.
As you get to know the Father
better, there will be a growing Godly grief at your sin. And the result of this
Godly grief will be repentance and faith. It will result in being honest about
your sin. No excuses. No minimizing. Instead, you will clearly acknowledge what
you did as evil. And then, you will come to Jesus for forgiveness and for
change.
Now, why am I preaching on this?
Well, first of all, it’s because the Spirit guided me to this topic. And I don’t
say that just to sound religious. But I think that one reason He guided me to
it is that sin is minimized these days. And I’m not talking about the world
when I say that. The world has always minimized sin. The problem is that this
is a growing problem in the Church. Christians are minimizing sin. As a result,
repentance, if it happens, is shallow. Instead of a Godly grief, there is, too
often, a worldly grief. And that leads to death. I don’t want that to happen to
any of you.
One consequence of this worldly
grief among Christians is that the Church has become too much like the world,
only with some religious words and habits stapled on. But how can we draw
people to Jesus if the difference between us and them is so superficial?
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