The only way to come to God is by taking off any spiritual mask. The real you has to meet the real God. He is a person.
Your heart could be, and often is, askew. That’s okay. You have to begin with what is real. Jesus didn’t come for the righteous. He came for sinners. All of us qualify. The very things we try to get rid of - our weariness, our distractedness, our messiness - are what get us in the front door! That’s how the gospel works. That’s how prayer works.
So instead of being paralyzed by who you are, begin with who you are. That’s how the gospel works. God begins with you.
Paul Miller