This morning we’re going to take a look at another of those
challenging parts of the Bible. This one has to do with prayer. It’s important
that we grow in our understanding of prayer because so much depends on a wise
prayer life. A key question here has to do with what we can expect of our
prayers. That’s what we are going to consider this morning.
Listen as I read to you some challenging words of Jesus.
And when they came
to the crowd, a man came up to him and, kneeling before him, said, “Lord, have
mercy on my son, for he is an epileptic and he suffers terribly. For often he
falls into the fire, and often into the water. And I brought him to your
disciples, and they could not heal him.” And Jesus answered, “O faithless and
twisted generation, how long am I to be with you? How long am I to bear with
you? Bring him here to me.” And Jesus rebuked the demon, and it came out of
him, and the boy was healed instantly. Then the disciples came to Jesus privately
and said, “Why could we not cast it out?” He said to them, “Because of your
little faith. For truly, I say to you, if you have faith like a grain of
mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it
will move, and nothing will be impossible for you.” Matthew 17.14-20
Boil it all down to the basic thought, and this is what Jesus is
saying. ‘When you pray in faith you can do the impossible.’ Now, I find that an
amazing thing for Jesus to say. You might even call it revolutionary. But so
many have found it so very hard to believe, that they have set it aside. They
have no idea what to make of it.
What I’d like to do is to raise a few questions about what Jesus is
saying and, in this way, unpack what is going on here. My goal in this is
simple. I want you to be able to do the impossible. I actually think that that
is something that you can do.
So, here’s the first question. Jesus is speaking to His apostles. Is
what He is saying limited to them, or does it also apply to you? This is what’s
behind my question. Just because something is written in the Bible doesn’t mean
that it is meant for you. Not understanding this leads to much confusion. So,
is this meant for you?
What was going on when Jesus said this? The Twelve could not cast out
a demon. Now, it’s important to note that Jesus gave those men authority to do
exactly that.
[Jesus] appointed
twelve (whom he also named apostles) so that they might be with him and he
might send them out to preach and have authority to cast out demons. Mark
3.14-15
The apostles should have been able to pray in such a way so that they
could cast out that demon. Jesus rebukes them for their failure.
So, back to my question. Does what Jesus say here about powerful
prayer apply to you or is it only for the twelve?
When there are questions about what one passage of Scripture is
teaching, the answer lies somewhere else in the Bible.
Consider what James wrote.
The prayer of a
righteous person has great power as it is working.
James wants to encourage the saints to whom he was writing to pray and
to do that knowing that their prayers can have great results. He then points to
someone who did pray with great power.
Elijah was a man
with a nature like ours, and he prayed fervently that it might not rain, and
for three years and six months it did not rain on the earth. Then he prayed
again, and heaven gave rain, and the earth bore its fruit. James 5.16-18
Now, nobody here is a prophet from God like Elijah. There are things
that God told him that do not apply to you. But here is one place where
something true of him is also true of you. You can offer up powerful prayers to
God. And that’s why James uses him as an example.
It’s because of that sort of thing that I can say that Jesus’ words to
those twelve men do, in fact, apply to you. So, if you pray with faith, you
also will do the impossible. That is the promise of Jesus.
Now, another question. Are we to take Jesus’ comment about that
mountain literally? Should we expect to be tossing mountains around? The answer
to that is a clear, ‘No’. Jesus is using something called hyperbole:
intentional exaggeration to make a point. Jesus is talking about doing the
impossible. His comment about that mountain is included as a way to drive home
that thought.
All of that was preliminary and basic. Now, for the hard question. How
does praying in faith accomplish the impossible?
Well, here we really do need a good definition of faith. That’s so
important because faith has been understood in ways that have absolutely
nothing to do with what the Scriptures mean by faith. So, what is faith
according to the Bible?
Here’s a good definition. Faith in God is the sure expectation that He
will act according to what He has said.
The first thing I want you to see is that, according to a biblical
faith, you don’t set the agenda when it comes to what you pray about. You don’t
tell God what you want Him to do and then add some sort of faith to that
request. So, if you want to pray, ‘Father, please give me [fill in the blank]’,
the question to ask yourself is, ‘Has God said that He would give that to me?
Has He given me a good reason to expect Him to act in that way?’ If He hasn’t,
then why are you asking Him for that? Why would you think that He would give it
to you? He sets the agenda, not you. That is really quite important.
So, in whatever situation you find yourself in, what you need to
determine is this: based on what God has said in the Scriptures, what can I
expect of Him now? And once you have figured that out, then you know what to
pray for.
Let me insert here an example of this from my own life. This is from
many years ago. I was working in an auto assembly plant because I had run out
of money to pay for seminary. I was hoping to save up enough to return and
finish my theological education. At the same time, we had suffered a
miscarriage. So, though we hadn’t been trying to have a baby, Linda now wanted
us to try. She wanted a baby. I was afraid that if we did that, I wouldn’t be
able to return to school. I felt the pressure of that situation. Do I risk my
future by pleasing my wife? In His amazing kindness, the Spirit pointed me to a
bit of Scripture that has stayed with me and been so very helpful ever since.
Let your way of
life be free from the love of money, being content with what you have; for He
Himself has said, “I will never desert you, nor will I ever forsake you,” so
that we confidently say, “the Lord is my helper, I will not be afraid. What
shall man do to me?” Hebrews 13.5–6 [NASV]
Now, did that tell me that I would get back to school? No. But it did
tell me that whatever happened, my God would be with me and would take care of
me. I was freed from any worry or fear, freed to enjoy His peace. And the
result was Seth.
My faith in God was the sure expectation that He would act according
to what He had said. He would never desert me or forsake me. And that would be
true even if I screwed things up royally. That’s what real, biblical faith is.
And it is that kind of faith that does impossible things.
But that leads to this question. Can you always know what God is going
to do? You can’t have any sure expectation about how God will act if you don’t
know how He would act. So, can you always know?
And the answer is obvious. No. He is full of surprises and acts in
ways that no one expects. He’s God. However, I do think that the average
Christian these days can know more, much more, about what God is going to do
and thus be able to pray accordingly.
So, how can you know more? The answer to that is also obvious. It’s
all about the Scriptures. Being made aware of that passage from Hebrews that I
just mentioned made clear to me how God was going to act. He would never desert
me nor forsake me. I had a verse.
But there are situations that the Scriptures don’t seem to directly
address. There is no verse that speaks specifically to the question, ‘Do I take
this job or that one?’ You won’t find a verse for that. So, what do you do? How
do you know what to expect of God in those kinds of situations? The answer is
still in the Bible.
There are several ways to use the Bible in situations like this.
Sometimes what you need to look for is an apt example. Here’s another passage
that God has used in my life.
But we proved to be
gentle among you, as a nursing mother tenderly cares for her own children.
Having so fond an affection for you, we were well-pleased to impart to you not
only the gospel of God but also our own lives, because you had become very dear
to us. For you recall, brethren, our labor and hardship, how working night and
day so as not to be a burden to any of you, we proclaimed to you the gospel of
God. You are witnesses, and so is God, how devoutly and uprightly and
blamelessly we behaved toward you believers; just as you know how we were
exhorting and encouraging and imploring each one of you as a father would his
own children, so that you would walk in a manner worthy of the God who calls
you into His own kingdom and glory. 1 Thessalonians 2:7–12
Paul is describing his relationship with some young Christians, and he
uses some striking words to describe how he feels toward them. Now, no one here
is an apostle. So, does that mean that this has nothing to say to us? No. What
Paul wrote is not just about him being an apostle to those saints. It’s also
about being a leader. Paul is modeling leadership here.
So, it’s about how a pastor leads his church. It’s also about how an
owner leads his company and how a father and a mother lead their family and how
a husband cares for his wife.
Based on Paul’s example, someone who has the responsibility of caring
for others might pray, ‘I know, Father, what You want me to be when it comes to
these people I am responsible for. You want me to be much more gentle with them
than I am, much more. So, I’m asking that You make me into that kind of person.
Make me gentle’. You could also pray about having a fond affection for them or
being able to exhort them or whatever you are lacking. But whatever that might
be, it is something that someone could pray for with the sure expectation that
God will grant that request. That is how you are to take advantage of the
models that God has provided for us in the Scriptures.
Now, to use the Scriptures in this way will take some effort. It will
mean taking the time to mull over what you hear and read, to ask questions.
Developing a sense of curiosity can be quite helpful here. ‘Why is this here?’
‘What does that word mean?’ I could see someone spending a good week or two
thinking about what Paul wrote in that paragraph and still not reach its
bottom. I’m not talking about spending hours a day. You could take five minutes
to write down whatever came to mind on the word ‘gentle’ or ‘devoutly’ or ‘imploring’.
And if you had more to write once the five minutes were up you could return to
the same word the next day. There is no rush. Aim for quality not quantity.
Out of this understanding of God’s Word will come sure expectations of
God. And out of that will come great assurance in your prayers. You will know
that He will grant these requests you are making of Him. That’s praying with a
biblical faith.
We’re not quite done with understanding faith. I also need to bring up
the issue of doubt. Something in Peter’s life fits here. This is when he sees
Jesus walking on the water.
And Peter answered
him, “Lord, if it is you, command me to come to you on the water.” He said,
“Come.” So Peter got out of the boat and walked on the water and came to Jesus.
But when he saw the wind, he was afraid, and beginning to sink he cried out,
“Lord, save me.” Jesus immediately reached out his hand and took hold of him,
saying to him, “O you of little faith, why did you doubt?” Matthew 14.28-31
Peter starts out saying something amazing. ‘Jesus, I think that you
could make me walk on the water.’ So, Jesus calls him to do that, and Peter
steps out of the boat. That’s evidence of Peter’s faith, the sure expectation
about what Jesus will do. He will make Peter walk on the water.
But then, Peter doubts. Now, that’s shorthand. Let’s write it all out.
Peter doubts Jesus. When you say it that way it becomes clear that doubt is not
some intellectual problem. It’s an interpersonal problem.
Peter saw the wind. And that raised a question in his mind. ‘Is Jesus
able to overcome the wind? Can He continue to keep me walking on the water?’
So, it was a contest in Peter’s mind. Fear the wind or trust Jesus? He opted to
fear the wind and to doubt Jesus’ ability to keep him walking.
Now, that’s insulting. And it’s also sin.
Now for a counterexample. Paul is writing about Abraham.
In hope he believed
against hope, that he should become the father of many nations, as he had been
told, “So shall your offspring be.” He did not weaken in faith when he
considered his own body, which was as good as dead (since he was about a
hundred years old), or when he considered the barrenness of Sarah’s womb. No
unbelief made him waver concerning the promise of God, but he grew strong in his
faith as he gave glory to God, fully convinced that God was able to do what he
had promised. Romans 4.18-21
Abraham was in a similar situation to Peter. For Peter, it was a
contest between the power of the wind and the power of Jesus. For Abraham, it
was a contest between the lack of power in his and Sarah’s bodies, and the
abundance of power in God. And God’s power won out. Abraham didn’t waver about
God’s promise. He kept on believing it. It’s helpful to note that the word
translated ‘waver’ here can also be translated ‘doubt’. So, it could read,
No unbelief made
him doubt concerning the promise of God, but he grew strong in his faith…
Doubt is not some intellectual problem. It’s an interpersonal problem.
It’s telling God that you don’t believe Him. You don’t trust Him. What a thing
to say.
What I just read about Abraham explains what you are to do about
doubt.
…but he grew strong
in his faith...
Faith can grow strong. And that means that faith can be weak. Remember
how Jesus said to Peter,
O you of little
faith, why did you doubt?
Doubt comes from a weak faith, from a small faith. So, the solution is
obvious. One’s faith needs to grow. It needs to be strengthened.
How do you do that?
It’s important to remember that faith is a gift. That means it isn’t
something that you can create or develop or make strong or any of that. Faith
is a gift that only the Spirit can give, that only the Spirit can grow. And
that points to the solution. Someone whose faith is little or weak needs to
pray for the Spirit to grow that faith and make it stronger.
When a Christian does that, the Spirit notices and responds. Sometimes
He points to something that needs to be repented of. Or He may call that
Christian to do something that will be a little uncomfortable, something that
will require just a little more faith than he has. But it is as we strive to
obey the Spirit’s commands that He blesses us. And one thing He blesses us with
is more faith, a stronger faith, a faith that grows.
A Christian’s faith can be strengthened. It’s just a matter of
listening to and obeying the Spirit. And it’s a strengthened faith that can do
the impossible.
And that brings me to my last question. What impossible things should
you expect to happen? That is, after all, what Jesus promises. You will do
impossible things. Like what?
The first step to answer that question is understanding what God means
by doing the impossible. It is rare for Him to do something dramatic, something
that makes a big splash that everyone notices. No, most of what He does is not
noticed much at all, things like a baby being born. There were many babies born
in Bethlehem. But it was because of the birth of one particular baby that
impossible things happened.
Our culture is all about the big splash. It’s not worth doing unless
it’s big and dramatic - or so they say. That’s what so much education these
days is about, preparation for making a big splash. But God’s way of changing
the world is by using lots of little, barely noticed events. That is a
counter-cultural idea worth thinking about. It can free from so many crushing lies.
So, what are those things in your life that you consider impossible to
change? Here, think about long-standing confusion, sins that are still
lingering, relationships that are a mess and have been for quite a while. What’s
on your list?
Jesus says that changing those things is not some impossibility. As
you pray in faith, that is, with biblical expectations of God, those changes
become possible. They become real. They happen. They won’t be a big splash.
Most people won’t notice. But you will. What are some impossibilities that you
need to add to your prayer list?
God uses Christians accomplishing these impossibilities, these small,
unnoticed victories. He uses them to move mountains and change the world.