I have a few thoughts about wisdom that I think are worth
writing down. But instead of one large post I'm going to break this down into
three. Here's the first.
We live in a culture that is enamored with knowledge. We
realize that there are many things to know, and we want to know about all of
them. It would be good if all this zeal to gain knowledge was altruistic. Some
of it might be. But there are many who want to know so that they can advance
beyond those who don't know. We can be very competitive.
One place where this push to know shows itself is in our
ideas about education. What is it that we want for our kids? We want them to
know. And so, in a multitude of ways, kids are getting their heads filled with
all sorts of information. Education is about knowledge. And, again, for a
goodly number of these, gaining knowledge is about getting ahead of others.
But is that what education is supposed to be about? Is the
goal to have knowledgeable children - who can get ahead? I really don't think
so. I have an alternative to offer. I actually think that education, the
training of children, is supposed to be about wisdom.
I hope to say more about a definition later, but speaking
simply, wisdom is the skill of living well. It is a skill that way too many
never get anywhere close to mastering. It is a skill that is learned. And part of what needs to be learned are certain bits of
information. That means that there most certainly is a place for knowledge in
the education of children.
But there are two caveats. Knowledge is not the goal of
education. It is a means to the goal. It is a means to the goal of wisdom. And
those who are involved in the education of children need to keep that
relationship between knowledge and wisdom clearly in mind. There are things
that children need to know. But they need to know those things so that they can
be wise, so that they can live well. This means that there are things that
children don't need to know, at least not right now. The goal of wisdom
determines the priorities of the various bits of knowledge.
Here's the second caveat. It takes more than books to gain
wisdom. Knowledge can be gained by books alone. But not
wisdom. For wisdom to develop, knowledge needs to be grasped in a
particular context, the context of life. To grow in wisdom requires
experiences, living out the knowledge that you have gained. It's in those
experiences that bits of knowledge result in wisdom.
This has much to say about current ideas about the training
of children. Too many have aimed at creating adults who are filled with much
knowledge. And there are many of these who have gained much knowledge. And,
from a particular perspective they are quite successful. But they are not
especially wise. And that is sad. The goal is not knowledge but wisdom.
Hear, O sons, a father's instruction,
and be attentive, that you may gain insight,
for I give you good precepts;
do not forsake my teaching.
When I was a son with my father,
tender, the only one in the sight of my mother,
he taught me and said to me,
“Let your heart hold fast my words;
keep my commandments, and live.
Get wisdom; get insight;
do not forget, and do not turn away from the words of my mouth.
Do not forsake her, and she will keep you;
love her, and she will guard you.
The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom,
and whatever you get, get insight.
Prize her highly, and she will exalt you;
she will honor you if you embrace her.
She will place on your head a graceful garland;
she will bestow on you a beautiful crown.” Proverbs 4.1-9
Hear, O sons, a father's instruction,
and be attentive, that you may gain insight,
for I give you good precepts;
do not forsake my teaching.
When I was a son with my father,
tender, the only one in the sight of my mother,
he taught me and said to me,
“Let your heart hold fast my words;
keep my commandments, and live.
Get wisdom; get insight;
do not forget, and do not turn away from the words of my mouth.
Do not forsake her, and she will keep you;
love her, and she will guard you.
The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom,
and whatever you get, get insight.
Prize her highly, and she will exalt you;
she will honor you if you embrace her.
She will place on your head a graceful garland;
she will bestow on you a beautiful crown.” Proverbs 4.1-9